Everything you need to know about designing your wedding invitations and the paper goods that follow.
The first piece of paper your guests will hold. The first hint of the color palette, the season, the feeling of the day. The piece your mother will tuck into a drawer and pull out twenty years from now.
This is the page that walks you through what it's like to design that paper with us, from the first conversation to the final envelope sealed and stamped.
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Selecting your wedding stationery should feel like the rest of your planning.
Enjoyable, considered, and a little slow on purpose. Your paper is the first glimpse your guests will have of your wedding day, and the keepsake you'll hold long after the last dance.
What follows is exactly what working with us looks like. From the first inquiry, through the design process, all the way to the moment your invitations arrive on your doorstep, sealed, addressed, and ready to mail.
“The most considered paper we have ever held.”
“Our guests still ask who designed our invitations a year later.”
“Working with her was the easiest decision we made all year.”
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every wedding tells a story
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From the moment she sent over our first mockup, we knew we were in the best hands. Every detail felt intentional, like she had somehow crawled inside our vision and made it more beautiful than we ever imagined.
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Working with Emily changed the way I thought about what a wedding invitation could actually be.
Pippin Hill Vineyard
Margot
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We almost skipped a full suite and just did digital. I am so glad we didn't. Emily walked us through everything without any pressure, and what she delivered made my mom cry the second she opened the box.
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Hiring Emily was the best money we spent on our entire wedding. It wasn't even close.
Bonnet Island Estate
Caroline
A reply card for your guests, with custom wording matched to your suite.
RSVP CARD
A hand-painted illustration of your venue, neighborhood, or wedding weekend, designed as a keepsake and a practical guide for your guests.
Custom Map
Hand-calligraphed with your guests' addresses and a wax seal.
Main Envelope
The main piece, typically 5x7 inches, on heavy cotton paper.
THE INVITATION
Reception location, weekend events, and any practical details.
Details Card
Pre-addressed with your return address, ready for guests to mail.
RSVP Envelope
A full custom invitation suite typically includes five pieces. Larger suites add details cards, weekend itineraries, accommodations cards, custom envelope liners, and hand-painted venue illustrations.
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Find the month of your wedding to see our suggested ordering and mailing timeline. These timelines are based on a mail date of six to eight weeks prior to your wedding and a production time of six weeks.
We design custom wedding invitations and stationery for couples investing in heirloom-quality paper, beautiful production, and a fully managed experience from first conversation to final mailing.
Do you offer day-of wedding paper goods and reception signage?
Yes. We design menus, place cards, programs, table numbers, welcome signs, seating charts, and bar menus, often produced on paper, acrylic, mirror, or hand-painted wood. Most couples book day-of paper three to six months before the wedding as a separate project from their invitation suite.
When should I order my save the dates and wedding invitations?
Save the dates go out six to nine months before your wedding. Invitations are mailed six to eight weeks before the day, which means most couples place their full order four to five months out. Use our order timeline above to find the exact dates for your wedding month.
How many design revisions are included in a custom suite?
Every custom package includes unlimited digital proofs and three rounds of full design revisions, which is more than enough for almost every couple we work with. We never charge for refinements within the normal scope of your project.
How long does the custom wedding invitation process take?
The full custom invitation process typically takes four to six months from inquiry to mailed envelopes, with six to eight weeks of design and proofing followed by six weeks of production and assembly. We recommend inquiring eight to twelve months before your wedding date to give the process the time it deserves.
Do you ship wedding invitations internationally?
Yes, we ship worldwide. Most suites are mailed to the couple first for a final review, and we can also coordinate direct mailing to guests in multiple countries for destination weddings.
Do you offer rush wedding invitation orders?
Yes, on a limited basis when our schedule allows. Rush timelines compress the process into six to eight weeks total with a rush fee added. We encourage couples needing a rush order to inquire as soon as possible so we can confirm availability.
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The Wedding Stationery Planner walks you through every piece you might want, from save the dates to thank you cards, with a clear quantity formula for each.
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